"ALL MEN ARE THE SAME" - "WOMEN CHEAT TOO"


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I went through a post of Facebook some days back and I couldn't hold my laughter. The question was "can a woman stay a year without sex?" There were lots of guys in negation to the question and some ladies affirmed to it. Whether a man or a woman can stay with or without sex is an individual thing, it has little to do with gender.

The world is filled with so much generalisation today, at every little finger snap a lady who has felt so much hurt and betrayal from relationships says "all men are the same" have you tried them all? On a lighter note, sometimes it takes a few hurts from the frogs for us to appreciate our prince charming.

Guys sit and talk, most of them say its hard trusting a lady because she is capable of dating five guys at the same time. My brother, how many ladies have you dated in a row? We are quick to judge others based on our past experience, am not saying we should not be careful but we should be smart and also inculcate the habit of giving people benefit of doubt

No human is perfect, its okay to make mistakes once in a while but not when it becomes a habit. Men cheat! Women cheat! please quit saying this cliches, its a thing of themindset and an individual trait. We cannot necessarily give what we do not have, no way!

Its okay for you to get hurt but when your partner feels its okay to hurt you every now and then just for a powerful makeup sex afterwards, my dear its time to walk away, did I just say walk, YOU NEED TO RUN!

A lying partner is a cheating partner, when we were younger mom used to tell us that a liar can break a home. I grew up realizing this, lies have done more damages to humanity, most sins starts with "a lie". It destroys friendships and relationships

Are you bothered on how to keep your man or woman? Please do not be because you can't. Anyone who wants to stay true and faithful to you will, its not an obligation, its a decision, I choose to be "this" and "that" and not "Im doing this for...."

A solid relationship is built on God, yes I talk about Him a lot, without HIm, there won't be a me writing to you. Have you prayed as much as you have complained? Life is way simple, humans are complicated, God made humans, so impossible doesn't exist in his dictionary.

Listen, never judge your relationship based on someone's. Learn to place value on yourself in order to be appreciated, hey! you are worth everything sweet and nice. God bless you, have a motivated Monday

Comments

  1. Anonymous28 August 2017 at 13:42

    I totally agree Mimi...'A lyin partner is indeed a cheatin partner'...cos every dishonest thing one does is their true self.

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  2. Tee'secrete28 August 2017 at 14:09

    When a man tells you, d feeling is gone, ladies kindly walk away or give dat space required....except that hand of friendship is required

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  3. prettihalimah29 August 2017 at 13:27

    So true I can't understand how one person feels so comfortable hurting someone else. It is well by his Grace...

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  4. Unknown29 August 2017 at 16:07

    Awesome......one needs to be self discovered before trying to cling unto someone else....its what u are that u bring into a relationship....if you know urself and understand that happiness comes first from you..before u can bring it into a relationship and if you are filled with sadness...thats what u will bring into a relationship too...a relationship is a mirror reflection of who we are that comes to like light....nice pitch mini.. ..

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  5. taymieo1 September 2017 at 00:02

    you're right. spot on as always!

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