WAYS TO KNOW A GUY IS INTO YOU



Some of us are so lost in the "Friend zone" that we don't even realize when that "friend" got something more than we imagine. There are a few basic ways in which we can tell whether or not that guy likes us. Don't quote me though, I believe there are several other ways but these are the few I have noticed over time. There are some unconscious things guys do when they feel differently about a lady, no matter how much they try to hide it you can tell when a guy is attracted to a woman...
  • WHAT HE SAYS- You can tell from what a guy says whether or not he is into you but you cannot be 100 percent sure from this. Observe closely the way he talks to you and the kind of conversation you hold. The subject of his conversation may rate how he views you, does he TEASE you frequently? Playful teasing may hint that he wishes you to tease back. A guy almost never teases a girl he isn't interested in. Sometimes he goes as far as mimicking something about you.When a guy discusses his problems, fears, dreams and goals with you, this may mean that he trusts you and wishes to get closer to you. Is he INQUISITIVE about your personal life? Wanting to know whether or not you are in a relationship? Your short and long term goals? Does he discuss with you about past relationship(s)?
  • WHAT HE DOES - Is he PROTECTIVE of you? He offers to help u scale through tough situations, oh yea he might just be acting a gentleman but then he simply likes you and wants to make sure you don't get hurt. Sometimes when a guy likes you, he tries to share in your INTERESTS...
  • HIS BODY LANGUAGE - Take good note of this, you can tell if a guy likes you by the distance between the both of you and how his body is facing you . You can tell if his body is engaged while talking to you, if his entire body is turned towards your direction, he is opened to what you have to say. Does he touch you unconsciously, like some form of body contact? Maybe you guys are talking and he touches you accidentally to stress a word.
  • HIS REACTION WHEN YOU ARE AROUND- How does he react around you? Does he treat you nicely by smiling at you? Although he might just be a polite gentle man who smiles at everyone. Notice his countenance with others or maybe its just in your head imagining lols...be WISE. If a guy is smiles at you does not necessarily mean he likes you but if you two seem to smile at each other whenever your eyes meet for no obvious real reason then its highly likely that these guy likes you.
  •  EYE CONTACT - Does he maintain eye contact with you? Note, the eyes is known as the WINDOW of the soul, it tells more than a lot about a person. But of course if he isn't checking your body out then he must really like your face. Does he stare at you a little longer, If he is attracted to you his pupils will dilate slightly he may look away trying to hide this. His eyes reveals most things, if you catch him looking at you and he looks away immediately like he is busy with something, this is  great sign. People vary, some guys will like to spot you looking back and then give a shy smile... Image result for eye contact
  • SOMETIMES NERVOUS AROUND YOU - Anything that shows he is slightly nervous around you or he is trying to hide his interest is obviously a good sign. Try notice if he is self conscious when you are around. He could display nervousness by talking a lot or way too little, Does he say something silly or stupid? then make the face of " did I just say that?"these are signs of being nervous.
  • GETS JEALOUS - When you talk to other guys and laugh, sometimes you can see the reaction on his face. Just look at him, he could pretend he is having fun but one eye will be on you and the other guy constantly checking if the FREAK is trying to make a move.
  • HE REMEMBERS BASIC INFO ABOUT YOU - He doesn't forget your birthday? Where you work? School? hobbies? opinions? HE doesn't forget things that u hold dearly...Sometimes he goes as far as reminding you of funny things you did and might have forgotten or not expected anyone to notice. When a guy likes you, he pays close attention to the things you say and do...
  • COMPLIMENTS YOU - He constantly comments on your appearance, He takes note of your new hair? dress? look? and tells you how beautiful you look in it. Also commends your hard work or intelligence, this might be a sign that he is attracted to your your personality. If he seem to be complimenting you more than often, he might be interested in you. Guys rarely compliment women they are not interested in...
  • COMMUNICATION - Does he make constant effort to keep in touch? checks up on you every now and then? Does he complain in a friendly manner or is slightly hurt when you don't maintain a good level of communication? If he is constantly checking you out, its a great sign...
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  • ASK YOU OUT ON A DATE - Some guys don't come out plain and tell you its a date, he could request u both hang out for dinner, movies, and games to mention a few. Just to have you around, spend quality time together, get to know you better and discover some other things about you. Whenever you see a guy wants to spend more time with you, he is obviously interested...

Image result for couples date If you have noticed some of these signs then he likes you but the question is do you like him back ?

Comments

  1. #1 fan sweetie m, Goodluck with your blog, will be reading!! P. S Dont forget me when the checks start coming *kisses* Uche-Roomie (UC)

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    1. Awww amen hun thanks so much. Won't forget you, we will all get there, God bless you...love you

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  2. Wow that's a good one :)

    Laks

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  3. What a great write up! This sounds interesting and real. Hugssssss. Yemi, Ibtc

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  4. Interesting. And please...don't let this dry up.


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    1. Thanks a lot, I won't by God's grace...

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  5. Hi Love, I'm yet to read the message but I just want to say congratulations! I'm with you all the way. I told you that I want to be like you when I grow up. Lol. Adriana.

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    1. Awww my baby....lol thank you sugar. You gon' be greater, see you already doing exploits Mmwahz

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    2. Hmm, the only thing I can feel now is my head getting bigger. That is great too, right? Lol. Adriana.

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  6. Now I've read it and I'm not sure I agree with the eye contact and body language reasons. Some guys that are interested in you may keep a steady gaze. They may even eat you with their eyes. Some are so interested in you and accord you so much respect and avoid body contacts so as not to send the wrong signals. Just my experience and I may be wrong.

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  7. No that's fine it's your view and I respect it. Thank you

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  8. Nice one again SwtMimi! I hope you take over the blog-world soon.

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    1. Thanks a lot Sege...amen to that. God bless

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