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WHAT YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT CHEATING (2)

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Hi guys, here is the conclusion from our last episode on some facts we didn't know about cheating. Overtime, study has shown that men with deep voices are perceived as cheaters lol, personally, I crush on guys with deep voices. I once read in an Evolutionary psychology published journal that men with deep voices are most likely to cheat on their partners and women with high pitch voice are most likely to be unfaithful. This balls down to the hormones - the more testosterone a man has, the lower his voice and the more estrogen a woman has, the higher her voice is likely to be. Over the years cheating has been confusing. A lot of people don't really know what is termed as cheating. Even researchers and clinicians cant even pin-point the behavioral pattern that constitute infidelity, its not until a partner has sex with another outside his relationship or marriage that we term as cheating. I carried out a survey sometime ago among a group of married and singles, their answers am

Xenophobia or Afrophobia: Is it the fear of foreigners or the fear of fellow Africans? by Mary Izobo – International Human Rights Lawyer

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Xenophobia or Afrophobia: Is it the fear of foreigners or the fear of fellow Africans? I am what you would call a nomadic African who has not had the luxury of being sedentary. In my twenty-something years, I have lived in five countries and still counting. South Africa, where I recently completed a Master’s degree is my latest home. However, I have felt more unwelcome in South Africa than anywhere else. In 2007, when I first arrived in Pretoria, a policeman stopped my car to check where I was from, because apparently, I looked ‘different’. As soon as I said I am from Nigeria, he asked for my bags which he proceeded to search it disparagingly, as if it contained pieces of dirt, and not my treasured valuables. He then demanded to search my handbag. By this time I had had enough of his disrespectful behaviour, so I refused to give him my handbag. I pointed out that by law, no policeman is allowed to search a female handbag without a warrant of arrest and only if I was charg

WHAT YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT CHEATING (1)

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Cheating has been in existence from time immemorial and it has been passed down through generations. Cheating is common among friends, partners, siblings and even in religious places, its everywhere. I am going to talk about the cheating that exists between partners in a relationship. Men naturally like to make women feel secured and women enjoy making the men feel they are in charge. Its possible to feel romantic love for someone and be sexually attracted to another, romantic love usually makes us direct all our attention to one person. Hence attachment follows suit and then commitment because we feel a level of security with that person which often leads to a long term relationship. Just because someone cheats on their long term partners doesn't mean they don't still love them... Another fact we don't know is that cheaters ain't necessarily unhappy in their relationships. Study shows that once a relationship starts to settle in and gets exciting, people will alway

Empire's Boo Boo Kitty(Grace Gealey) & Andre(Trai Byers) are married

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Finally! Trai Byers decides to tie the knot with his sweetheart Grace Gealey) who he engaged last summer. Gist has it that the co - starts Grace Gealey (31) and Trai Byers (32) tied the knots in an exclusive private ceremony in a mansion on Gran Cayman on Thursday April 14th, 2016. The guest list was limited to a table of five with just close friends and of course family. Cheers to a happy ever after, I love this couple...