LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH

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“The only thing we never get enough of is love and the only thing we never give enough of is love”
Sometimes, love isn’t enough. No matter how strong it is. And no matter how big it is, sadly, love is not the only thing to keep two people together. You need love, yes. Of course you do. But you need a lot more than love to keep a relationship going.
A lot of people think that love is the answer. They think that it’s the secret. But if it was the secret to successful relationships, then no one would be breaking up. No one would be divorcing. If love was the secret, then there would be a lot more people happily married right now.
“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.” ~Dalai Lama
Sometimes, love is all a couple has. And when that happens, there is not a lot they can do anymore. Love alone is not going to keep those two people together. Love alone is something, but it’s not everything.
So, when a relationship or marriage ends, it’s not because the love wasn’t there. It’s not because their love wasn’t real. It’s because of a million other things. Maybe it’s money, or differences on how to raise children. Maybe it’s two people growing apart. Maybe it’s a realization that they are too different. Maybe it’s about something that happened in the past. Perhaps it’s distance. Or maybe it’s an unhealthy relationship that needs to end.
Regardless of what the reason is, no matter what, people should never judge other people for ending it. Don’t ever judge a broken up couple and say that they weren’t in love enough. Don’t say they didn’t try hard enough. Don’t ever place blame on love for being the driving force between two individuals.
Love is always there. Most likely when two people say their vows to one another, they mean it 100%. Trust me when I say, no one goes into a relationship thinking it’s going to end. No one goes into a marriage thinking it’s going to end. Everyone believes that love will make it last forever. Everyone thinks that love is something so powerful, that it can withstand any hurricane.
Reference - https://thoughtcatalog.com/lauren-jarvis-gibson/2016/09/the-real-truth-about-why-love-is-never-enough-to-save-relationships/

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