FOUR SIGNS TO SHOW SHE IS INTO YOU

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I get stunned when guys ask this question : how do I know she is into me? Although it could be confusing but then there are some glaring signs to watch out for. I was with a couple of male colleagues last week and we were actually discussing this. One of them actually argued this out with me, he was like "Mimi, you know you can't trust ladies of these days, they would pretend to like you and do anything for you especially if your pocket if friendly". We all laughed at his statement, to an extent its true but then I asked him, is that what you want for yourself?

Let's deliberate on these signs together, just my own honest opinion, in case you are among the class of guys who cannot tell when a lady is into you, you should read this  Image result for COUPLE PICS

1) WHEN SHE ASKS YOU SOME PERSONAL QUESTIONS - We would agree that a girl who doesn't even send you would not even care to know some basic things about you. A girl who is interested in you might not even come up directly to ask you if you have a relationship, whenever you are with her she might just keep making reference to "let your gf not break my head oh" this is most typical of our Nigerian girls.


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2) WHEN SHE STALKS YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA - A lady who is interested in you will check your social media pages regularly. There are different types of ladies, some will add you up and keep contacts with you on all your social media pages while some others will just investigate you privately. They would not want to be seen or heard, they will just monitor all your moves and like your pictures on a low key lol. If a lady stalks you on social media without being paid for it, then know that she is not just interested in you she is already into you

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3) WHEN SHE ENJOYS TALKING TO YOU - If a lady does not like you at all, she would not waste her precious time talking to you because she will find you really boring. In this case you are likely to get cold responses that indirectly means KEEP OFF. When a lady is into you, the conversation flows naturally without stress.
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4) WHEN SHE REACHES OUT TO YOU FIRST - In this 21st century, this is more easier than we thought but still some ladies still wait for a guy to reach out to them first. Usually, women wait for men to reach out to them first, they enjoy the attention but when a woman breaks this chasing rule and comes after you then its huge, you should not ignore her if you actually feel the same way.

And lastly, have you prayed about it as much as you have talked about it, there is always a solution to confusion in prayer - Mimi Alexx
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Love is a gamble always but waiting won't change the dice. So, its either you roll them or you lose your turn, the choice is yours

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